Ramona swore on her kids that she didn't say that TO Drita, and then she swore that she never said it. And again on the after show, when she was calling Drita a liar, she said that she never said it TO Drita because she and Drita don't talk. So, I think that she definitely said that or something very similar, especially since Renee and Drita appear to still be friends.
Plus, Drita recently gave a radio interview where she said that she would give Ramona the benefit of the doubt and believe that she may not remember saying it and that in that moment with Renee being as angry as she was, there was no way Ramona would admit to it anyway. But, she is adamant that Ramona did say it because she was there and heard her say it and that the truth would come out - I assume on the show, but can't be sure of that.
But, that's my take on it. Also, I know that Renee is the type that if she swears on the life of someone in her family, it means she is telling the truth. But, she is also the type to assume that everyone is as loyal as she is and that is probably why she immediately flipped and believed Ramona. But, since Ramona only knew her drug dealing boyfriend a few months before moving in with him and her kids, I would think that swearing on her kids lives is simply a figure a speech for her and doesn't have the same depth that it would have for Renee. That sounds awful, but then I think Ramona is awful.
Edited by PaganChick, Mar 15, 2012 @ 12:12 PM.