Oh, no way in hell can I resist this -- To Brian Kinney from Queer as Folk
You are not a hero. You are an allegedly ultra-desirable, affluent white guy who gets laid a lot. Your access to gender,race and class privilleges is what allows you to live you life on your own terms.There's a fucking difference.
Your honesty is limitted to the contempt that you show everyone including the men you sleep with. There's just a little bit more to being honest than sincere assoholery and (the fact that this needs to be said is precisely why you're not as desirable as you like to think) a sincere asshole is still an asshole. To Ted from Queer as Folk:
You need new friends. You were raped during a meth-induced black-out. While you may have placed yourself in the less than safe situation where it happened, it's not your fault, it's the degenrate fucks who took turns sexually assaulting you while you were unconscious who are to blame. The equally degenerate fucks who you think of as a chosen family did not offer you one iota of support or compassion choosing instead to only show disdain for actions you took while suffering from a debillitating addiction. If some I thought of as family were raped I would be a hell of a lot more upset than Emmet, Lidsay and Mel were while they watched a tape of you being violated
(that's called evidence, by the way). That's not family. Cut these people out of your life. Now.
p.s. if you still have the tape go to the police and press charges against the men who raped you. Whether they get convicted or not, it will be a chance for you to gain some closure over what happened to you.
p.s.s. you're not, nor have you ever been, ugly. Hopefully, addressing your sexual assault will help you gain the strength you need to never
allow another vapid, vaccuous piece-of-shit hottie to treat you like you're worthless.To Martha Jones form Doctor Who:
You are a brave, intelligent and hard-working young woman with an enormous amount to offer anyone. The being that you've developed feelings for is (a) not human in mind nor in body, (b) living in the shadow of indescribable trauma and ( c) is in his most assholish incarnation since his sixth persona. He simply appears to be a (really vain) cute guy. He cannot offer you the affection or even friendship you need and even if he could, he hasn't earned it
(apparently, you're a rebound). Travel with him, learn from him, enjoy the adventures and understand that he's not the person he used to be.To Rose from Doctor Who:
However painful your seperation from the Doctor may be, you must move on. See to your education (which incidentally you abandoned in favour of another older man). Be attentive to your family and do not treat them as a poor consolation prize/substitute for the Doctor. Your career with Torchwood will probably require an enourmous amount of training so the education advice above will be vital. 'Knowing stuff' will give important context to what you saw and experienced travelling in the TRADIS.
Do not under any circumstances pursue a relationship with Mickey. Do not have sex with him. He may still be vulnerable to you so the temptation will be there. Apologize for fucking with his feelings and keep your damn distance. Avoid building your identity around your romantic relationships, if you don't know who you are when you don't have a boyfiriend, you shouldn't have a fucking boyfriend. Focus on you family, career and helping people. That baby Jackie's expecting means you're a role model now so for Gallifrey's sake, get your shit together.
Edited by fadooski, Feb 14, 2008 @ 12:38 AM.