It's Me or the Dog
#1
Posted Jul 3, 2007 @ 2:11 PM
So far, I think my favorite episodes are the OCD Gordon Setter, the dictatorial Yorkie and the bossy miniature dachshund.
#2
Posted Jul 3, 2007 @ 2:46 PM
#3
Posted Jul 3, 2007 @ 5:18 PM
#4
Posted Jul 6, 2007 @ 3:45 PM
Victoria is HOT, with those black clothes and the hair and the boots. She's like a dog-training dominatrix!
#5
Posted Jul 6, 2007 @ 5:34 PM
I was so appalled that the bf seemed to not believe how dangerous that dog was.
#6
Posted Jul 6, 2007 @ 6:17 PM
#7
Posted Aug 21, 2007 @ 10:10 AM
#8
Posted Aug 22, 2007 @ 3:11 AM
It was the one with the dog who could climb up anywhere, and who could open almost anything too. He'd steal food from the oven as it cooked, (he must have hotpads for feet) and "wee'd" everywhere, including on the other dog's head, and on the bread box!
I couldn't help but laugh when the hidden camera showed him opening the oven door, standing on it, opening the drawer, standing on it and finally reaching his target: food on top of the toaster oven. My goodness that dog was clever.
Like with problem dogs in The Dog Whisperer, it seems often the dog is too much dog for the family. Also it almost always seems they are working dogs, who are way too intelligent to sit around while the family watches tv, or to be satisfied with a lifetime of cuddles and being dressed in doggy sweaters. Why don't some of these people adopt a different breed, or at least keep their dog occupied? If they are not high energy they should not have a high energy or highly intelligent dog, unless willing to find some way to work with it. Games, complex toys, time playing with the dog, agility training, anything. Otherwise the dog will make its own game, and the humans won't be pleased.
#9
Posted Aug 22, 2007 @ 8:29 AM
I really liked how pleased she was with the Gordon Setter's progress, when she admitted she just wasn't sure if what she had suggested would work given that with the obsessive types a lot of it is trial and error and in the end some of their problems cannot be solved with mere training.
#10
Posted Aug 22, 2007 @ 11:10 AM
the hidden camera showed him opening the oven door, standing on it, opening the drawer, standing on it and finally reaching his target: food on top of the toaster oven. My goodness that dog was clever.
My dog did something very similar a couple of years back. She wen from a chair, to the stovetop, to a high shelf, to the top of the microwave (which sits on top of the fridge) in order to retrieve the Easter candy. I went into an absolute panic mode when I came home and discovered she'd eaten almost two pounds of chocolate. Luckily it was almost all milk chocolate, she's not a small dog, and it didn't even upset her stomach, but I was absolutely frantic at first. One of my friends thought I was lying about how the dog got into the chocolate, but she saw that episode of IMOTD and emailed me to say that she believes me now!
#11
Posted Aug 22, 2007 @ 11:12 AM
I wish I'd seen that episode. Is this show still on the AP schedule?
#13
Posted Oct 22, 2007 @ 8:19 AM
I laughed and laughed that the little chiu..chiau... little Mexican dog was described as a "fat, white sausage" by Victoria, because that poor dog really looked like a sausage. Victoria displaying just how much food the dauchsund was being fed was quite amazing. I think it really made quite an impression on the owner.
I was very impressed by the progress of all three dogs, but the change in the beagle was amazing. It really illustrated how owners so affect their dogs' attitudes. The beagle went from lazy and fat to energetic and somewhat trim thanks to the "fat farm." And they really didn't do very much, other than give her exercise and cut back on the food.
#14
Posted Oct 22, 2007 @ 9:22 AM
The positive reinforcement/positive "takeaway" approach is so good. I say 'positive takeaway' because I can't think of the proper term, but it's the taking away of something the dog wants, like your attention. The example that someone posted above of turning away when the dog is jumping on you is a great example. It works!
#15
Posted Oct 22, 2007 @ 11:38 AM
I was very impressed by the progress of all three dogs, but the change in the beagle was amazing. It really illustrated how owners so affect their dogs' attitudes. The beagle went from lazy and fat to energetic and somewhat trim thanks to the "fat farm." And they really didn't do very much, other than give her exercise and cut back on the food.
I saw it, I actually found it sickening that the people put the dog's health at the bottom of the priority list and insisted on overfeeding, despite the health problems it was creating. There was a show on after that, I think, about obese dogs, and the one woman with the Rotty who was double his normal size, and she still insisted there was nothing wrong with him, was pathetic, she was a total head case. Couldn't even see how her dog was suffering, self centered old cow.
#16
Posted Mar 1, 2008 @ 9:51 PM
I would really like to have seen what Cesar Millan would have done with this dog. I think Victoria might better stick with dogs that chew the sofa or pull on the leash.
#17
Posted Mar 2, 2008 @ 12:00 AM
Anyway, I was glad to see her apply the behaviorist model to an aggressive dog. Using desensitization and counter-conditioning is absolutely a smarter approach than trying to intimidate or correct a dog out of being aggressive. It didn't look scattered at all to me. It just looked like they were working on desensitizing the dog but also practically managing the situation by keeping him from getting into situations that he can't yet handle without getting worked up. Any behaviorist that works with aggressive dogs would do the same thing.
#18
Posted Mar 2, 2008 @ 9:41 PM
And she said the the aggression was fear-based, and the dog was very insecure, easily stressed and "nervous. She seemed to be doing six different methods with the dog. It was very scattered. Some clicker and reward, some distraction, games, affection, putting him behind a gate to "soothe" him.
I didn't see Victoria's approach as scattered at all. Just that she recognized that controlling this dog was not going to be a matter of just one thing. It was good that she made it very clear that even if the dog seems to be under control, he will always have the potential to be aggressive and the owners will never be able to let their guard down. I've been generally impressed by the results she's had.
Every time I think I might want to break down and get a dog, I see an animal like this or watch a few of the dog-bite cases on People's Court and I remember why I only want cats...
#19
Posted Mar 18, 2008 @ 2:07 PM
#20
Posted Mar 18, 2008 @ 6:42 PM
Victoria determined the mother was suffering from empty nest syndrome (always the humans fault!) and the dogs suffered from role reversal i.e. thinking they were in charge! Cute episode.. Victoria got them to sleep in doggy beds in the hall, when she went back 2 weeks later the mom had moved the doggy beds back in her bedroom but had not let the dogs back on her bed with her and her husband! Always a positive outcome, I cannot believe how smart some of these dogs are!
#21
Posted Jun 3, 2008 @ 7:24 PM
#22
Posted Jun 3, 2008 @ 8:07 PM
Are there really new episodes coming out soon?? If so, then I cannot WAIT for Victoria to do what she does best.
I wonder if Victoria has a website on the steps showing how to retrain certain types of dogs? I know some people who could definitely use some of Victoria's skill and expertise on training their dogs.
ETA: The dog's name was Teo, not Pongo. Pongo was a dog from another episode.
Edited by Psychrometrics, Jun 5, 2008 @ 1:42 PM.
#23
Posted Jun 4, 2008 @ 11:13 AM
One thing I am dying to get is the bubble machine--I know I saw her use it in at least one episode. They set it up in the backyard and the dogs barked and jumped at it for hours. I suppose I could Google it and find it in a minute. Again, never would have had that idea.
I find that sometimes the show does resort to sort of theatrical techniques to get their point across. Particularly in the Fat Pets special, when they digitally fattened up pictures of that one woman's daughters to make her understand how overweight the dog was. (It was criminal the way they were neglecting that dog's health, though.)
Anyway, love it!
#24
Posted Jun 4, 2008 @ 1:19 PM
I loved the episode I saw earlier this week where a terrier of some sort was driving its male owner batty with its digging and hunting (did I mention it was a terrier?). Anway, he was ready to get rid of the dog but by the end he loved it so much his wife said "you've stolen my dog from me." I'm a sucker for a happy ending.
Oh, brother, I caught this show tonight. I saw one about an aggressive dog they referred to as an "American Bull Dog" which seemed to be sort of a tall pit bull, but the face wasn't exactly like a pit bull, a little more like an English bull. Anyway, it had aggression problems, mainly whenever the couple had guests in the house, it would attack them. It wasn't animal aggressive. It was possessive of the wife also. But this dog training chick, Victoria, made this huge case that once a dog is aggressive you cannot ever, ever trust it no matter what. It might have to be put down some day. Even though they did all extensive training, plus it turned out the dog had medical issues that they were correcting. And she said the the aggression was fear-based, and the dog was very insecure, easily stressed and "nervous. She seemed to be doing six different methods with the dog. It was very scattered. Some clicker and reward, some distraction, games, affection, putting him behind a gate to "soothe" him.
Your lack of dog knowledge is showing. The dog was an American Bull Dog, which is a real breed. And, if a dog is aggressive, you cannot ever trust it. Doesn't mean you can't have a wonderful relationship with the dog, but you cannot ever forget it is aggressive unless you want to take the chance that you will be dealing with massive guilt and a lawsuit down the road. Just a fact of life.
Edited by NoLoContendere, Jun 4, 2008 @ 1:34 PM.
#25
Posted Jun 4, 2008 @ 5:33 PM
The dogs were very protective of the wife who was encouraging/enjoying the attention she was receiving from them! The poor husband hadn't slept in his bed with his wife for 2 years. Everytime he tried to get in bed with his wife and dogs they would bite him!
Yeah, this was on last night and that husband was way too nice. When they had the meeting about putting the dogs in the utility room with their own beds, the wife snarked to the husband "looks like you won that one." Seriously, that was messed up. If she can't realize the husband deserves to sleep in his bed maybe she needed to bunk up in the utility room.
#26
Posted Jun 5, 2008 @ 1:45 PM
I just want her to say to the owners that they have done a terrible job with their dog. The main problem is usually owners who treat their dogs like humans rather than animals. Sometimes we see her do this in the car on the way there, I'd like to see her make an owner cry with her honesty!
She has come close to telling some of the owners that they have done a terrible job, but usually the owners just admit it right before she has the chance to say it. Like there was one episode where this lady told Victoria that she treats her dog as if it were an actual baby because she can't have babies right before Victoria said that the lady was being a terrible leader and anthropomorphizing the dog is very unhealthy for the dog and for the owners.
#27
Posted Jun 6, 2008 @ 12:34 PM
The main problem is usually owners who treat their dogs like humans rather than animals.
Did you see the one with the lady who thought dogs were just like cats? She had always had cats and when her last one died at age 17 or something she couldn't bear to get another one so she bought a Chihuahua dog who turned out to be a raging hellbeast? She told Victoria that at first she thought something was wrong with it because it didn't groom itself like her cat did. Anyway, the main problem in that case was not the woman treating her dog like a person, it was her treating the dog like a cat. Seriously messed up.
#28
Posted Jun 22, 2008 @ 1:39 PM
#29
Posted Jun 22, 2008 @ 2:59 PM
Every time I think I might want to break down and get a dog, I see an animal like this or watch a few of the dog-bite cases on People's Court and I remember why I only want cats...
Oh, CattyKit, please don't be intimidated by all that. I grew up in a family with cats, cats, cats, and I loved our kitties, and, of course, once I had a home of my own, I got a shelter cat who was a wonderful pet, and I loved her very much. But.... my sister by that time had not only cats, but dogs, horses, ducks and other nice creatures, and she very carefully bred her beautiful female black Lab from a show line with a strictly selected chocolate Lab from a field line. Six pups ensued, all black, which she sold to people based on a very strict interrogation as to the life they would give the dog. Any whiff of a puppy mill (or even of hunting, which I actually think some of these pups, including mine, would have been extraordinarily talented at), and she said no. I wasn't off the hook as a family member -- she wanted a thorough explanation of how I'd raise a pup in Manhattan and hand selected the one she thought most suited for apartment life.
The upshot, for me, is that cats are very nice and generally effort-free pets. Dogs require a lot more effort -- housetraining, obedience training, with a lot of breeds more attention -- but offer a lot more back in exchange. They communicate in a way that cats just don't. My dog understands and responds to more words than I can count, and many complete sentences. She also has learned to tell me what she wants -- to play, go out, to sleep (she hates it when I stay up late because she wants us to go to bed at the same time), to have space on the couch, etc.
I live in a small Manhattan apartment, but it's close to off-leash dog parks. When I got little (now very big) Bea, I committed myself to the idea that she would have at least five days a week exercise off-leash, plus additional on-leash walks. I loved her from the minute I saw her, and all the shoe-eating in the world (and she did plenty) would never make me want to trade her in for anything. It's a big commitment of time and/or money, depending on where you live and how many hours you work, plus, with an active and wily breed like a sporting dog, they MUST BE TRAINED or they will be bored and a big pulling exhausting mess on your leash. But, at least with Labs, it only takes a few months of group training and careful reinforcement at home (that can be fun -- like "give me your paw" before giving a treat, or even better, hiding treats around the house and starting a "find it" hunt), to get them to settle down.
(Incidentally, I find the habit here to leave small dogs totally untrained, and then find it funny when they are walked on an extension leash and permitted to attack any other dog walking by, appalling. I am expected to keep my 85 lb. dog under complete control while some 20 lb. dog is actually attacking her, and the small dog owner isn't even trying to leash the dog in, let alone properly socializing the dog. Ridiculous. My dog is carefully trained never to engage, but sometimes I wish she'd just snarf up one of those brats to show the owner that no matter the size, the dog should be trained and controlled.)
Sorry. Rant done.
My sister also acquired a retired racing greyhound, who my sister amusingly got jealous about, because after a cross-country trip where the greyhound traveled with me while my sister's two Labs traveled with her, the greyhound loved me just as much, though my sister thought she was way more "nurturing" than me. Here's the thing -- I was always kind and loving to the greyhound, and made sure her needs were met, but I was also firm with her and provided a structure to her days, even if it meant that I had to tell her that it was time to eat, so she would eat, or it was time to get in the truck, so she would get in the truck. Dogs appreciate kind firmness -- domestic dogs don't want to make decisions, and like structure. On the other hand, they don't like being yelled at, yanked around or smacked. There is a medium where you brook no nonsense, but understand their needs.
This was way longer than intended!
#30
Posted Jun 23, 2008 @ 2:56 PM
So far, I think my favorite episodes are the OCD Gordon Setter, the dictatorial Yorkie and the bossy miniature dachshund.
Heh, my sister and I have two tweenie rescue dachshunds, and they are bossy, indeed. I love that episode, because Rufus is such a typical doxie.
she hates it when I stay up late because she wants us to go to bed at the same time
Our female doxie is this way. Alpha female all the way!
ETA: this show is also a good example of why it's important to research breeds before deciding on the kind of dog you want. Dachshunds are bossy, because they were bred to be. Dachshund means "Badger Dog" in German, because they hunted badgers and the breed was developed in Germany. The nature of hunting badgers meant that the dog would be underground in the burrow where the hunter couldn't easily communicate with the dog. It had to make a lot of its own decisions.
That's why today when I'm walking my bitch, er, sweet little doxie, we'll get to a corner, and she'll decide which way we're going ... or try to. And she's amazingly strong. She's only 14 lbs, but its 14 lbs of solid muscle. When she puts on the brakes and throws her body weight backwards she nearly pulls me off my feet!
Edited by Paula in Playa, Jun 23, 2008 @ 3:04 PM.









