So have I, but Monica is just too damn hood for me---singing about Sideline Hos and stuff. I can't take it. Miss Thang will always be my favorite (though After the Storm was pretty good). And, watching her with those diamonds in her teeth and next to her eye--meh.
Funny you mention that because I was watching the latest episode and she was performing in a club singing some of her first stuff. It was then that I really noticed how much she has changed over the past 15 years. It didn't even look like she should be singing "Why I Love You So Much". It's like such a beautiful song just doesn't go with the package she is presenting.
I guess I have overlooked the changes she has made over the years since she was still making good music. I didn't mind the armband in the "First Night" video or even the huge tat in the "So Gone" video. It wasn't until the music started to fade that I noticed how she has grown into adulthood. All in all, she still seems like a decent individual so I will just hope that she can return her music back to where it belongs. I'm just happy she still has her voice.